Women have the gift of seduction that is really not taken advantage of nearly as often as it should be. Most women don’t realize how much they can really get out of men if they can figure out how to work the assets that they already have to their benefit. There are seven fool-proof ways to use the art of seduction to anything and everything that you want…
Form an emotional connection…
Men, just as women crave an emotional connection whether they really know it or not. If you can tap into a man's emotions, especially without them realizing it, then you have the key to their heart, their pants, whatever the hell you want.
Just be sure to tread lightly. Men have super senses when it comes to feelings and if they believe that too many emotions are getting involved, they will shut down and bolt before you have a chance to get anywhere with them. The trick is subtly. Flirt to your hearts content to figure out what their emotional tick is and then toy around with that until you have them beginning to twirl and wrap themselves around your little finger.
Create a want for what you have to offer…
Seduction is all about desire. The man you’re after has to want anything and everything that you have to offer. The way to ensure that desire sticks is to not give them what they want… at least not at first.
Show them what you have, physically, mentally, emotionally (but take it easy with the feelings at first), and then tease the hell out of them with that. Strut your stuff the way you and I both know that you know how to; flaunt your best assets but only to them. We’re talking like Fergie “My Humps” kind of shit here, and I know you know what I’m talking about. Make them feel as if they’re the only one in your world. Stay close, but keep enough distance so that what they want is just barely out of reach.
At least for the time being.
Carry yourself with confidence…
Confidence is one of the sexiest traits a person can have. It really doesn’t matter at the end of the day how attractive someone actually is, if you have enough confidence in yourselves, you can be as sexy as you believe you are. Confidence is contagious. Shit, if you think you can rock it like JLo then there’s a good chance that your heartthrob will believe that you can as well.
You do you and realize what you have to offer, and baby they will too.
Use body language to your advantage…
Lingering eye contact and subtle movements of your body is sometimes all it really takes. This requires a self-awareness of your motions. If you cross your legs a certain way while slightly biting your bottom lip and glancing up to meet their gaze, you’re drawing their attention from your legs, up the length of your body, to your lips, and then eventually pulling them into your eyes. That’s when you have them. But don’t hold them for too long; look away after a second, smile that coy little smile, and they’re yours.
Create a lingering presence…
No matter where they go or who they’re with, you want them thinking about you. Seduction isn’t a quick game to play but it can come with some great fucking benefits if you know how to work your shit right.
You need to be that girl that they remember. Be the one that stands out, for one reason or another. It’s all about figuring out what gets to their heart and into their pants and then working that to your advantage. Do what all those other girls aren’t doing or saying to them and you’re in.
Be aware of your looks inside and out…
This isn’t to say that you have to look entirely on point and ultra sexy every time you see them, but a little bare shoulder or belly button ring showing under a turtleneck sweater is sometimes all it takes to take their imagination for a wild ride.
As long as you’re aware of how you’re presenting yourself to you’re straight up about who you are and how you do and if you look good doin’ it, then you’re good babygirl.
Above all, keep it natural…
Guys can sense if you’re not being real with them. Don’t fake anything in order to try to seduce a man, they will honestly see right through the bullshit and then your whole game plan is ruined. All you need to do is work your womanly wiles the way that you know how to do very well deep down; keep it natural, casual, and flirty and that’s your instant ticket to seducing your way in and out of anything you want.
Seduction is manipulation, Honey. Just know how and when to work it, and I promise, you can get anything you want and more.
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