Ladies, ladies ladies! It’s time to face the fact that if you’re not at least semi-regularly having an orgasm (or never have) then honey, you’re really missing out and something is not right.
Guys (and girls), if you’re having trouble making your girl cum then pay close attention because there are literally 12, yes 12, different ways to make a women have an orgasm.
No excuses from this point forward…
12 different ways, you have options, so take your pick and go make it happen.
Clitoral…
Probably the favorite and most common technique. The clit is one of the most sensitive parts on a woman and even the gentlest flick of the tongue across it can send waves of pleasure through her entire body. Even if you’re not currently having any kind of sexual contact, but you’re horny as f*ck, you’ll feel your clit throbbing just begging to be played with.
Sex toys, your hand (or someone else’s), or oral… take your pick. Just keep in mind if someone else is taking care of you then you might have to offer a little direction. Kind of like guiding a blind person driving a bus down a busy street, lead them to the right area and hopefully they can take it from there.
Vaginal…
This kind of orgasm starts in the vagina and either stays concentrated in the pelvic and lower stomach region or will spread like f*cking crazy. It requires deep, rhythmic thrusts and the sex position you choose is key. Although it can be a less intense orgasm, it is felt more deeply.
Remember guys, try to have some self control here and make sure she cums before you do otherwise you may have to make your way back down to the clit and get a mouthful of what you taste like as it leaks out of her.
G-Spot…
The elusive g-spot can be hard to find, I’ll admit. But feel around a little bit, it feels different in texture (a little more coarse) than the rest of the vaginal walls, and I promise you it’s there. Hook a finger or two right under the pubic bone and you could literally pull your girl in by her g-spot.
This is an orgasm that takes some building up to, so have some patience. If your partner is really good, they’ll be able to f*ck your g-spot while stimulating your clit leaving you a breathless and quivering hot mess.
Squirting…
If you’re a squirter (maybe you don’t know it yet) then you’re sexy as hell and don’t let anyone ever tell you otherwise. Guys and girls alike absolutely love this, especially if they’re the one causing it. Squirting makes all other female orgasms pale in comparison but it is not always easily achieved. The g-spot is the key and a woman's comfortability is the lock.
So ladies, why not pour yourself a glass of wine, roll a blunt, do how you do, and whip out that vibrator to find out for yourself if you squirt or not before letting anyone else have a go at it.
A-Spot…
No this does not mean anal, we’ll get to that. The a-spot stands for the anterior fornix. It is situated just above the g-spot actually, about 4-5 inches deep. After the first orgasm, this area doesn’t get too overly sensitive so if you’re with someone that is really on a mission, have them f*ck your a-spot after you cum once and you’re well on your way to multiple orgasms.
This can be achieved through a basic missionary position, sex toys, or fingers (yours or another's). Just use that hooking technique that we talked about with the g-spot and ta da!
Deep-Spot…
This is at the deepest part of your vaginal wall, so it can be a little hard to reach for some, but OMG it can lead to a f*cking intense orgasm. It’s not a widely known or recognized way to cum, so few women have actually experienced it. According to those who have, it has a similar sensation as anal, just right on the other side. Wrap your legs around your partner's neck and allow them to thrust as deeply into you as they can, or get a couple fingers up in there and after a couple minutes with a “come hither” motion, you’ll be collapsing in breathless satisfaction.
U-Spot…
A tiny spot just between the urethra and the vagina, can’t be too hard to find right? Exactly. All it takes is some gentle caressing with a finger, tongue, tip of a penis, or toy. It provides a similar type of orgasm as the clit and gets just as sensitive afterwards so be careful not to overstimulate it after the deed is done, that will just make your girl uncomfortable.
Anal…
If you can have an orgasm all these other ways, of course you can by stimulating your ass, like why not? Obviously, anal is not for everyone but next time your man hints at a litte ass play think about how you might benefit from it. Just make sure he loads up on the lube and starts out gently before going too crazy back there.
Nipples…
When a woman’s nipples are stimulated, many feel that familiar throbbing sensation in their clit. There’s a direct connection with the nerves between the two, consequently making nipple orgasms possible. Most women will get ridiculously turned on when their nipples are played with, but not all of them can cum this way. If you’re on of the lucky ones with ultra-sensitive nipples then you’re in luck. Stimulate your breasts enough and you will feel it exploding through your body and straight to your clit.
Oral…
Women can have an orgasm while performing oral on someone else?? Like what? Imagine your girl going down and going to town on you and before you know it, she’s coming just as you are literally just from giving it to you.
The mouth plays a huge role in the sexual nervous system. Anything from kissing to licking, sucking to performing oral can give you a crazy orgasm if you’re sensitive enough. Many women describe such an orgasm as starting at their lips, spreading to their mouth and eventually all over their body.
Sounds good to me.
Skin…
Your entire body is basically a ball of sexual energy and nerves just waiting to be stimulated. A sensual massage, even in areas that you wouldn’t think are directly sexually related, can give you an orgasm that sends shivers and goosebumps across your entire body.
This is not necessarily an easy orgasm to achieve, but it’s definitely possible. You’ve just got to put in the work to make it work.
Mental…
Yes, it’s true, you’re brain can get you off. Your mind is the biggest sexual organ in your body and it really deserves to be used to its full potential. Take some time to connect your libido to your brain, lay down, close your eyes, and imagine everything that’s being done to you by anyone you could dare to imagine.
If you’re horny, calm, and in a meditative state of mind then let the euphoric feeling of literally thinking yourself into an orgasm take over.
This sh*t could really be dangerous. Be careful where you are when you think too hard about your sexy AF neighbor giving you 11 different kinds of orgasms.
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